What is a friend for you? There are many definitions to reveal it. Friendship is a personal relationship that really provides a reason to feel any concern and care as a friend. In general, the friendship basically involves a special kind of attention to your friends. This type of special attention is called “love”. As we know, loving someone is based on several reasons. The first is based on the passionate desire to objects that is usually related to physical or sexual attraction. This type of love is usually becomes one of the factors for the relationship between two people who are in “Eros” love. The other type is “Philia”; it can be said that this is a love with warmth and closeness not only to an individual, but also to families, relatives, neighbors, and anyone else. So that, “Philia” appears to be more relevant to we call a friendship. For those who fall in love, a combination of “Eros” and “Philia” certainly is an absolute requirement for a relationship of eternal love. more…